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Spectrum of ally behaviour in an ideal movement.<ref>Resources for Ally & Coalition Building</ref>

Ally is an umbrella term used by some to refer to people who (claim to) support oppressed and marginalised groups.



Much like a student in a formal setting, an ally is expected to be respectful, listen, and learn.

A good ally will behave in much the same way one behaves in a lecture or class. Activists who know more due to their inherent experience, e.g., oppression, are able to teach allies who are not oppressed, or not as oppressed, in that specific axis. For allies to help others, they must first learn what the lived experience is of oppressed people, how they interact with the world and how society at all levels treats them.

Appropriation of the "A"

Example of an ally erasing asexuality from the LGBTA acronym.<ref name="loyolamaroon">Column: “A” stands for asexuals and not allies, by Katherine Richard</ref>

Allies have been known to hijack the "A" in LGBTQA for themselves, taking it away from aromantic and asexual communities.<ref>Invitation to Fight Me: The A in LGBTQA Should Not Be For "Allies", by Umphie</ref><ref name="loyolamaroon"></ref> Different LGBTA groups often have varying opinions on the place of allies within their communities and the meaning(s) of "A" within their acronyms:

One side of the acronym discussion feels allies shouldn’t be included just because they support the community. Supporting the community doesn’t mean they are a part of that lifestyle.

For example, just because a person can support African American rights and issues, does not make that person a part of the African American community, Guenther said.

Guenther said the other side of the argument says allies should be considered part of the community because they, too, have faced stigma and oppression even though the stigma appears to be declining in the U.S.<ref>Adding ‘allies’ to LGBT acronym sparks controversy, by Morgan Kelly</ref>




The principal reason activists and generally oppressed people think allies are problematic is because of their behaviour. This behaviour seems to be directly correlated with the adoption of the label "ally" to describe oneself:



Another representation of the ally social barometer, from page 54 of In the Tiger's Mouth: An Empowerment Guide for Social Action, by Katrina Shields<ref>In the Tiger's Mouth: An Empowerment Guide for Social Action, by Katrina Shields</ref>

Many people start off being active or passive allies and then discover they are themselves oppressed along various axes. This is a common story within many genderqueer and non-binary communities: their members start off as allies of the LGBTQ+ community and eventually realise their own gender is not cis. This is in and of itself a product of cisnormative culture, which disallowed them from experiencing the diversity of trans and non-binary concepts, role models, and identities.

On the other hand, allies, especially role model allies, sometimes apologise after they have been told what they have done wrong. These allies must never be held to a lower standard than oppressed activists. If you are an ally yourself, you may need to work on burning your (ally) idols, especially when they end up being immune to all kinds of criticism. While correctly phrased and learned-from apologies are excellent as part of ally activism, promoting oppressed activists is more pertinent to a horizontal, pluralistic, and socially just movement.

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